Monday, March 16, 2015

FEAR -> “SO WHAT” -> FAITH

When you are small, when you used to fall down people used to laugh at you, did you ever bother? No, you used to laugh yourself, get up and started walking! But as you grow up, you start judging yourself what other people think of you rather than thinking of yourself. Today if you fail, the first thing you do is, you look around and see whether people have seen you or not. 

Every individual is made up of three layers, I mean three psychological layers which we are made off....

1. Being good
2. Feeling good
3. Looking good

When you are small you want to first "be good" by giving your personal things (pencils, food!!!) to others...and then "feeling good" for the same and finally "looking good" with least priority. 

But as you grow, priority of these layers got changed as "looking good" and "feeling good" and "be good" of no use...Your entire life becomes depending on what other people are thinking about you which is extremely dangerous.

1. Looking good
2. Feeling good
3. Being good

This is why a word "fear" comes to our life. When you grow we are getting into "fear" of failure by thinking about others. 

This is where we need to know about the power of two words "SO WHAT?"...when you are in difficult situation ask yourself "SO WHAT?" that will help you to convert from FEAR situations!!! be a child always....

Your successes is yours and your failures is yours!!!!!

Second word is FAITH, this is one more way you can overcome your fear. Start developing your faith in your own ability, when you start getting confidence your fear will vanish from you!!!






Keep Winning!!!!
~Your madoo

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